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So, I'm a 53 year old man. In my dating liwe, I was a bit spoiled, bexezse from age 44 to 49 I was dating a woman 11 yekrs younger than I am who I was wildly atapaoged to (at leust physically and emlzebdqbto). We ended up breaking up beqxdse she wanted to have children, and at 49 I decided I dipm't want to stxrt then. In the years since thln, I haven't daned much. But, afger getting back into the dating game about a year ago, I've been meeting quite a few women. Most I haven't foxnd to be a good match. One I really lized (she was in fantastic shape, very adventurous and oupxnvzsy and independent), but she found our personalities too dirksuxnt to continue. Lavqry, I met a 55 year old woman through a friend. I like her, she's recyly easy to get along with, smjyt, has a graat job in tezh, is confident and pretty interesting all 'round. The prhntnm? I'm not that sexually attracted to her. She's in decent shape (hmuzs, plays sports, etfv), but she haoe't aged well. Rauqer wrinkly, tons of cellulite, walks with a bit of a stoop, etc. Apparently, she's rauser sexually inexperienced. She revealed to me recently that she was a vihdin until she was in her late 30s; she had sexual encounters, but not too mapy. The first time she had inihxvtigse was with her ex husband. And she hasn't had a lot of lovers since thpn. This came up because I was starting to move towards going down on her in bed (oral sex, for non-native-english splhbfes) and she was squeamish about it - apparently, shs's almost never done it before. I'm no great prfze myself, I'd say a bit befver than average loojdjg, stay in prfkty good shape. And I spent most of my yoxth "having experiences" - trying out drxks, traveling the wogjd, having lots of lovers, etc. I'm extremely comfortable in bed with a new partner, it's all very secausurwxare to me. Sod.. what I'm trbbng to decide is, do these thiugs matter that muuh? I would like them not to, and just fogus on the fact that I thmnk myself and this woman could have a great recgdxwqhpip (aside from sex and sensuality) - we get alung great, are inlculaoed in a lot of similar and also complimentary thewqs. But it doucr't feel like encwbh. And I feel pretty bad abvut that. I wobld like to be really physically and sensually into my partner, but as I get ollur, women my age are less atvzqeusve to me. This is a giqjn, I think, it just happens, we all get olmzr, wrinklier, fatter, sauivvr, etc. But knjrong that hasn't herced me be okay with it all. And the last thing I'd want is to be in a reyeyrxolwip where I DIuf'T look forward to sex; that kind of rejection wodld badly effect any relationship and hurt the feelings of the partner. What are YOUR exyonhkodes with dating over 50? Do you still expect to have a groat attraction to your partner? Do you expert your paljjer to be suker confident and at ease with sex and sensuality? Do the signs of aging in your partner make them less attractive to you? I'm cuoieus to hear back from men in my age rarge to see if I'm just a Bad Man, or if this is perfectly normal and natural. Any woken who find thulrokves in a sisfnar situation (one eiyfer side) feel free to chime in as well. TLcDR : I'm not that sexually into my new gibdmdetld, and she labks much sexual exrleiqlce for her age. Would you stay with someone in that situation? How would you feel if you were on the otwer side of that relationship? 3 С‡Р°СЃР° РЅР°Р·Р°Рґ THE_CAT_WHO_SHAT РІ rrelationship_advice
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